Re: What makes Foot fetish so popular?
Thats a really good explenation. Some of it very much makes sense. Interesting subject.
I would ask the boyfriend him being a psychotherapist but I know what his answer would be… something to do with growing up and wanting to have sex with your mum or dad. Bloody Freudians! lol
This makes much more sense. Thanks for that!
[quote=dzinerbear;15953]I can maybe shed some light on this. I don’t know why, but when I was growing up I had a thing about my feet â were they normal? did they look how feet should look? And I was mostly concerned with the form and shape of my toe nails. I guess growing up there was so much that wasn’t “normal” about me, but in some respect I was looking for something where I was the same as everyone else. That’s my armchair psychiatrist’s opinion anyway.
Now as an adult I have a thing about feet. I don’t particular like to do anything with them, but a guy’s got to have nice feet to keep me around. And I look at feet all the time. I’m not so interested somewhere like the gym or the baths, but when I’m out and about I’m always steeling looks at guy’s feet. In the elevator, in the grocery store, at the bank … if a guy is wearing sandals, I’ll be checking out his feet.
I think that they turn me on so much because you can tell a lot about a man by the shape of his feet. Your feet are your foundation, they support you all day long while you walk throughout your day. If you have dry feet, dirty toenails, cracked and calloused heels, I think it says something about you. Our feet spend so much time covered up in socks and shoes, so if you have nice feet I think it says that you really take the time to go the extra mile and take care of them.
I used to have a boyfriend, who after I had a long shift waiting tables, he’d massage my feet and it just felt like heaven. It was also painful as he worked out all the tension, but it was still amazing.
The feet are also one of the most sensitive parts of the body, so if you touch them, kiss them, rub them, massage them, and lick them, it can feel pretty awful. Most guys suck cock or fuck ass, but if you find one who will rub your feet, it’s such a rare thing that it’s a real treat.
I have on many occasions not called a guy back for a second date because he had ugly feet. Sometimes, it’s not their fault, they were just born with ugly feet, gnarly toe nails, bent toes, or bone-dry feet, but I don’t want to spend the rest of my life, or even a couple of months if it doesn’t work out, looking at ugly feet.
One thing that drives me crazy about gay porn is that (a) photographers hardly ever show you a guy’s feet unless they’re shooting fetish stuff, and (b) guys with dirty feet because they’ve been walking around the set for a couple of hours. (This last thing drive me nuts on So You Think You Can Dance, too.)
Anyway, there’s some insight.
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