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I’m not so sure about that. There certain are some condom fetishists out there, but the fact is that raw sex just feels better â straight or gay â few men love wearing a condom.
Michael
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I had sex without a condom with my partner for nearly 9 years and haven’t done it for 16 years since then. To me there are so many different things to do in sex, that are all good. And wouldn’t you agree that fucking is not just about the physical sensation of whether or not there is a bit of rubber on your cock? 
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I know Tony and Cam serosort, …[/QUOTE]
and now, for Tony on his soapbox - a need for clarity and separating us from the pack…
just for the record, we do far more than serosort… and, far more than any studio we’ve ever worked for in our eight years of shooting - we counsel our models and provide them with current information and turn down over 85% of the models that apply as performers with ZyloCo, Inc. - one of the reasons why we release so few films each year.
as a matter of fact, we thought that Titan, All Worlds, MSR, Bachus, etc. and all of the “condom” companies we worked for (over 15 of them) did NOTHING to identify any types of STD’s or other infections and did not require any types of testing - they all depended wholly upon the model’s word for it and condoms to prevent the spread of infections through the anus only putting all of their models at risk of infecting each other with god only knows what -
on many sets and one in particular, I REFUSED to rim someone for risk of being infected by a visible herpes infection on their butt! - the director did not care about me at all - even though I pointed out the blisters to “her/him” - I thought that was disgusting! (especially for a self proclaimed leader in the industry)
I do appreciate the fact that most all persons on this board tend to leave us out of the pack - because I do take great offense to being balled up with all the “bareback producers” when the shit flies re: safety and the horrific filming practice employed by others - who I don’t see as rivals
you see guys and gals, the way we work is in being totally honest and upfront with our performers - we spend weeks in conversations and meetings with them - monitoring their health and reviewing tests and counseling them - they come to us with questions and concerns and we give them answers and resources - in short, our performers ARE the people we depend upon and they depend upon us as well - its a symbiotic relationship - and a relationship of respect - and you can ask most any of the men that have worked for us and they’ll tell you that we are the VERY best guys to work for in the business… (gosh)
and, in spite of all our “scrubbing” (if you will) of our performers, many of our DVDs and episodes are very raunchy and seemingly filthy and sell, sell, sell which goes to show that there’s lots of room for keeping everyone SAFE (according to stringent CDC guidelines) and human decency…
and of course, this is not to mention any of the studio tricks and gimmicks we employ to film - after all, this is Hollywood and not everything is as it appears - but I’m not giving any trade secrets away! - all of the tinsel, glitter and mirrors you know…
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Different comment than the one I just wiped…
If I understand things correctly, the problem with an AIM-like system would be that it would bar someone like me from doing what I’ve done. I’m neg, and I fuck poz guys. I do so knowing they’re poz and fully informed on the risks. These days I view a poz guy with an undetectable viral load as lower risk to fuck than a “neg” bottom who’s taking loads and may not know he recently converted.
Personally I have a problem with an AIM-like system telling me I’m not allowed to participate in much of bb porn (since a lot of US bb porn is with poz guys)… It’s one thing if a studio here or there serosorts, but if they were all forced to serosort that wouldn’t be good (IMHO)…
I’m all for guys knowing what they’re getting into. But just because we know the other guy is poz doesn’t mean we shouldn’t be allowed to do the scene if we want to.
The funny part is how I was following the thread thinking “AIM sounds nice - yeah, that would work”… Then it dawned on me what its implication would be for me personally and my thinking changed completely…
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The problem I can see with the above is in being able to trust what the other person says. Especially outside of a porn shoot situation. One of my best friends became positive from his boyfriend. They were together for about a year and the bf never let on that he was positive. He then persuaded my friend to give up condoms. A few months down the line my friend got tested and found that he was then positive. Still the bf didn’t admit for a couple of months. Anyway they are still together 18 months later.
What I’m saying is how can you possibly trust someone to tell you what their viral load is when there are people around you will do what I described above, to get what they want?
Also I don’t know what the situation is in the US but what happens if and when you end up positive? I mean who pays the bill if you need a lifetime of treatment? For some people that is an annual cost that is more than they earn each year.
I’m not judging or anything, I am genuinely trying to get my head around the thinking behind this.
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[QUOTE=DirtyRatStudios;15948]The problem I can see with the above is in being able to trust what the other person says. Especially outside of a porn shoot situation. One of my best friends became positive from his boyfriend. They were together for about a year and the bf never let on that he was positive. He then persuaded my friend to give up condoms. A few months down the line my friend got tested and found that he was then positive. Still the bf didn’t admit for a couple of months. Anyway they are still together 18 months later.
What I’m saying is how can you possibly trust someone to tell you what their viral load is when there are people around you will do what I described above, to get what they want?
Also I don’t know what the situation is in the US but what happens if and when you end up positive? I mean who pays the bill if you need a lifetime of treatment? For some people that is an annual cost that is more than they earn each year.
I’m not judging or anything, I am genuinely trying to get my head around the thinking behind this.[/QUOTE]
I can actually relate to a number of issues you brought up…
For starters I had a boyfriend in the early '90s who was poz and didn’t admit it until I found a KS lesion on him. I had even asked him some pretty pointed questions that he wiggled his way out of. In his case he was having a hard time admitting it to himself. I loved him, stayed with him, and cared for him until he died.
As far as health insurance… In my case I’ve known for about 20 years now that I have a slow growing brain tumor. There will never be a time when I’ll let myself have anything other than great health insurance. It has also forced me to think about the fragility of my own life and the importance of juggling enjoyment of the here and now with long term consequences…
What types of risks people take to have a greater enjoyment of life is a complicated thing that has many different factors that are unique to each person… I like to drive 80+ mph and don’t get to the gym enough… Both of those could also kill me, but I enjoy having a fast, powerful car and a non-athletic life…
As far as trust… It’s a weird thing that can be easily violated. My personal belief is that guys shouldn’t be barebacking (at all) if they’d be devastated if they became poz. Even boyfriends can cheat and lie. And honestly, barebacking is addictive. I’ve seen guy after guy “just try it a little with negative tops” and then not be able to stop and take more and more risk. Or guys who get into it with a boyfriend who want it after the relationship has ended and wind up bottoming for complete strangers. I know the bb sex with a boyfriend was the turning point for me… If you’re really not OK with the possibility of becoming poz, you shouldn’t even start down that road.
As far as what you can believe… The most believable statement these days are the guys who say they’re undetectable. You’ve got a better chance of that being true than with a guy who says he’s negative (unless he’s a total top - but how do you believe he’s a total top?).
It’s complicated to say the least… And real life situations are more complicated than on-camera porn shoots…
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we’ve been constructively dealing with the dilemma for over 8 years but “the adult industry” REFUSES to listen to us or ask us to help define effective guidelines
and in spite of my expertise in this area, we are never invited to speak or represent creative solutions - the industry would rather name call and shun us - its easier for them to be uniformed rather than take the time to research, read, COMPREHEND and be up to date… they only want to believe what they already think they know or think they understand… and I don’t mean to offend anyone on this board but… we HAVE been dealing with these issues for about 25 years… so I think I am entitled to a little respect
we have work behind the scenes with other companies here in the US and some producers of our EU content to keep all of our models healthy and happy
personally, I have major problems with a “clearing house” for testing results - I think a model is entitled to certain privacies and we owe it to our models to keep all of their privileged information confidential
I would love nothing more than to help establish guidelines of ALL PRODUCERS of adult content - and have been pushing for safer sex practices - and I mean safer than just handing a condom to someone and relying on some silly 24 hour old tests…
my 3¢
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> It’s complicated to say the least… And real life situations are more complicated than on-camera porn shoots…
Thanks. That’s an interesting insight to it.
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As far as AIM and the privacy issues go, we do have a federal law in the US called HIPPA which protects medical privacy, but a person can voluntarily waive it and allow their medical records to be released. I assume that’s how AIM handles it. I don’t know if, when you get tested by them, you have the option to “opt out” of having them track your results and share the information; perhaps we can get somebody from AIM to post here and explain what they do.
RawTOP, I could be wrong, but I don’t think AIM dictates that a poz person cannot work with a neg person; I think that the studios make those decisions based on info from AIM, but I can’t imagine why a responsible studio would allow that because, regardless of releases signed to the contrary, it’s a lawsuit waiting to happen if a model becomes positive and it can be shown that the studio knew about it. Not to mention, as Bill from HDK has pointed out, the CalOSHA regulations that would undoubtedly be used to come down hard on a studio if something like that became public.
Tony, I think times are changing. CCBill, for one, tried to assemble a panel of knowledgeable people on the bareback issue for the last Gay Phoenix Forum (as part of the Phoenix Forum) but fell a little short on the pro-bareback side; it was not by their choice. I will suggest your name next year.
The other thing is… I agree with rawTOP that trust is a HUGE issue in barebacking with a boyfriend; I can’t tell you how many times a model tells me that he’s barebacking with his BF, and he trusts the BF completely… only to find out the BF is fooling around on the side after they promised to be monogamous.
I do think that most of the young people who bareback are in denial about the risks in the same way they are convinced when they start smoking that they’ll never get addicted, or that they can do crystal meth occasionally and “always keep it under control.” They’re always convinced that it “won’t happen to them” and somehow they’re “different” from the statistics.
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Been there, and in the 1980’s. Love is a terrible thing I could have been dead now. It gives me the creeps even to think about it.
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In my case, a neg top barebacking a poz bottom who’s got things under control with meds - the scientific data say that’s close to zero risk. Plus, if the person is actively barebacking in their private life then how can it be traced back to the shoot? It could have been any number of incidents…
Which, from what I read, is actually partly the case with “British Bareback Vacation”. Some of the models say they converted around the time of the shoot, but not on the shoot.
CalOSHA doesn’t apply to me, I’m not in California. And from what I understand the federal regulations treat employees different from contractors - which is one reason why so many of the actors in porn are contractors, not employees…
I still don’t see how I could be refused work because I’m negative… By personal preference of the director sure (along the lines of wanting someone thinner or with an uncut dick), but I can’t see how you can legally mandate that I’m not allowed to do certain work that I may want to do. It’s a curious legal question which I don’t have the answer to.
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I still don’t see how I could be refused work because I’m negative… By personal preference of the director sure (along the lines of wanting someone thinner or with an uncut dick), but I can’t see how you can legally mandate that I’m not allowed to do certain work that I may want to do. It’s a curious legal question which I don’t have the answer to.[/QUOTE]
I don’t think it’s a legal mandate, only one in which the producer may not feel comfortable.
While, you may never sue if you become HIV+, others may. Even if you sign a document stating you wont, unless the document is legally binding by the laws of the jurisdiction, it doesn’t mean anything. So, in the end it’s the producer who has to take the risk of a possible lawsuit and ultimately make the choice.
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there ARE other diseases besides HIV out there that a condom will protect you from most of the time. hep c is a lot less treatable than HIV and can kill a person more quickly than HIV, but other diseases can have tragic consequences, too - especially if not treated. whether people are pos or neg, they can still communicate all those diseases, and i only know of a couple smaller studios that test for all.
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VERY good point. Hep C is now very common in the UK, and specially in London. My ex I found out was a carrier of Hep C (I think, or the other version…) and had it most of his life, I was lucky I didnt get it off him.
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CalOSHA doesn’t apply to me, I’m not in California. And from what I understand the federal regulations treat employees different from contractors - which is one reason why so many of the actors in porn are contractors, not employees…[/QUOTE]
California, where a significant majority of all US-based porn is shot, set the precedent years ago that actors/performers in films (porn or Hollywood) are employees, not contractors. They have been going after bareback producers for OSHA violations, among other things. Of course, a lot of studios if not the majority are ignoring that law and the related OSHA regs. Bill from HDK has more details on the story, but that’s it in a nutshell.
I don’t know about Federal OSHA regs and their applicability to contractors. As of yet, I don’t think there are any federal cases where OSHA regs have been applied to porn.
And Lloyd is right, for practical purposes, it would be a studio not being comfortable with mixing seronegative and seropositive people. No matter how a release is written trying to disclaim responsibility on the part of the producer, I can imagine that it would probably not stand up in court, particularly with the laws in California criminalizing sex between HIV+ and HIV- people.
Finally, as Patti points out, we spend all this time focusing on HIV when hep-C and, actually, syphillis (if not caught and treated early) can both be extremely difficult to treat. And one study showed that a majority of people who have HIV also have at least one, and as many as three or four other STIs, which also complicates treatment.
I’ve never seen the studies you’re speaking of relating to the risk of sex with low-viral load HIV+ people, but I’m interested in reading up. Do you have links?
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I’ve never seen the studies you’re speaking of relating to the risk of sex with low-viral load HIV+ people, but I’m interested in reading up. Do you have links?[/QUOTE]
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/topics/treatment/PIC/pdf/viral_chart.pdf
Here is another opinion on it -
“Unfortunately, undetectable does not mean non-existent since the viral load measures only what’s in your blood serum on a given day. A person can have more virus in their semen or vaginal fluids than in their blood, and vice versa. Research has shown that decreases in viral load in blood correlate to levels in semen and vaginal secretions, but no one has shown how much virus, measured in terms of viral load in the blood, is “enough” for transmission. “Undetectable” viral load does not mean you won’t transmit the virus to someone.”
http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/insite?page=ask-01-10-24
Another -
http://www.thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/Couples/Archive/Guilt/Q10939.html
When I volunteered at Fenway Community Health, they did agree that a low viral load amongst a large target group did in fact reduce the risk of the larger target group as a whole. However, and this is a big however, The VL in your blood (which is what those will say their VL is) may NOT be the same as in your semen.
In rawTop’s case, he is talking more with less of an emphasis on semen levels as he is talking about being a top.
I guess I am just pointing this out because an HIV+ top with a low or non detectable VL in the blood can have a much higher VL in the semen.
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The Swiss put out a “statement” in January saying under certain circumstances it was reasonably safe for a poz person and a negative person to have sex…
http://aidsmap.com/en/news/4E9D555B-18FB-4D56-B912-2C28AFCCD36B.asp
But, upon closer inspection the statement only applied to vaginal sex. SO, one of the researchers was interviewed at a conference and said they would most likely find a similar finding if they looked at anal sex…
http://www.aidsmeds.com/articles/hiv_condoms_virus_2151_14010.shtml
(go to 9:30 in the video to see what I’m talking about)…
Then just recently there was a finding that giving aggressive HAART therapy could lower new HIV infections by 60%.
http://www.emaxhealth.com/53/23036.html
That’s based on the same premise as the other studies - that once a person stabilizes and is undetectable then they’re basically shooting blanks and can’t pass on the virus.
All of this has been known for a while in rough terms but just recently scientists have been able to say that it’s true with a certain degree of certainty…
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All of these types of statements are theoretical. The point the Swiss made was that there isn’t a single documented case of a HIV+ person infecting someone through vaginal sex if they were undetectable for 6 months or more and had no other STDs.
And they didn’t say it was impossible, just so unlikely it shouldn’t be a significant concern for straight people who want to forgo condoms. So if a case is found it has to be taken in perspective as a statistical outlier…
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I’ve also heard a school of thought that the condition of the immune system of the non-poz person may have a huge effect on the outcome (whether or not the person seroconverts) but, as far as I understand, it is near impossible to quantify.
In other words, there appear to be some people who for lack of any other explanation have very strong immune systems that resist seroconversion even when repeatedly exposed to high viral loads.
Pretty amazing that we’re going on some 25+ years of research on this topic and there’s still so much we don’t know.